

The Profit from Dating Retirement: Freedom
If meeting, dating, hookups, and mating was a paying job, then right now in 2021 I would retire with FULL benefits.

Shiny Orchid
Mar 18, 20215 min read
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I am my own ecstasy.
Yeah along the way we get hurt. But we also smile and laugh and scream with ecstasy.

Shiny Orchid
Jan 20, 20214 min read
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Dear Wednesday Reflections
If we have not learned anything else this year, we have learned the power of fighting for something you believe in, something that moves you

That Wednesday Life Maven
Jul 28, 20203 min read
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Dear Readers...
Your participation shows us that we are walking in our purpose.

That Wednesday Life Maven
Jul 21, 20202 min read
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[Blogger's Choice] 40 Ways We Self-Sabotage and How To Love Ourselves Through It
It was only a few years ago that I heard the term "self-sabotage". Honestly, it made me cringe.

That Wednesday Life Maven
Jul 14, 20207 min read
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[Blogger's Choice] 12 Things I Wish I Knew Earlier in Life
With that being said, my choice for this week’s letter is “12 Things I Wish I knew Earlier in Life”. It is funny looking back over this list

That Wednesday Life Maven
Jul 8, 20206 min read
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[Blogger's Choice] The Heart of Her Vision Came From Within
Today is July 1st, 2020 and we have decided to make this theme "Bloggers Choice" month. For this Wednesday I have chosen to re-share a blog.

That Wednesday Life Maven
Jun 30, 20204 min read
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Top Ten Reasons You Need a Dating Break (Dear Wednesday)
While we may feel like time is running out for marriage and kids and family, we have an opportunity to be revolutionaries...

That Wednesday Life Maven
Jun 24, 20205 min read
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What Modern Dating Can Learn from the Past (Dear Wednesday)
It seems silly to say this now in the age of polyamory and cohabitation, coparenting and non-monogamy. But where did we go wrong?

That Wednesday Life Maven
Jun 17, 20206 min read
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I honestly have Nothing to say.
For one of the first times in my blogging career... I don't have anything deep or intrinsic to say.

That Wednesday Life Maven
Jun 10, 20202 min read
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Questions I Carry with Me that You Don't Get to Answer
I had a ton of plans for the year, for myself, for my business, for expansion, for good health. It has all come to a screeching halt...

That Wednesday Life Maven
Jun 3, 20204 min read
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Dear Wednesday: Reflections of a First Time Podcaster
You are capable of success. You are capable of healing. Your faith can be rebuilt; and it is never too late to start again.

That Wednesday Life Maven
May 26, 20203 min read
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Becoming a Winning Woman: 7 Steps to Developing Your Winning Circle
I want to give you tips on how to develop yourself in to a Winning Woman that attracts healthy, engaging, collaborative relationships.

That Wednesday Life Maven
May 19, 20203 min read
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Appreciate How You Present Yourself (Dear Wednesday)
This month we are celebrating Winning Women. Those who are and have shown the ability to win when everything looks like a loss.

That Wednesday Life Maven
May 12, 20203 min read
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Finding the Right Fit (Dear Wednesday)
Good bras are like good girl friends. They lift and support you when you are down and out. They are strong when you are weak.

That Wednesday Life Maven
May 5, 20204 min read
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A Foolish Faith
Some have declined to use the required preventative measures because to trust science and research would mean they didn't "trust" God enough

That Wednesday Life Maven
Apr 29, 20207 min read
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The Ten Commandments of Mature Womanhood
A mature woman knows her assets, her audience, and her atmosphere. She is an asset and an ace.

That Wednesday Life Maven
Apr 22, 20204 min read
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Weight is No Longer My Obsession (Dear Wednesday)
My feelings rose and fell with the rising and falling of the scale. Maybe you have gone through similar experiences with your body.

That Wednesday Life Maven
Apr 15, 20204 min read
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What is Love? (Dear Wednesday)
I was recently in a Facebook forum for mental health clinicians, such as myself, who are single, and a question was raised, "What is Love?"

That Wednesday Life Maven
Apr 8, 20203 min read
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10 Power Strategies That Will Change Your Life Now
I want to provide you 10 power strategies that will to increase your power and resilience in the midst of this unprecedented pandemic.

That Wednesday Life Maven
Apr 1, 20204 min read
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The Corona Survival List
Stress is high and people's compassion tanks are running on empty; therefore it is time for a pick me up! Please utilize this list...

That Wednesday Life Maven
Mar 24, 20204 min read
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The Water Bottle (Dear Wednesday)
We were on our way to take medical supplies and conduct dental clinics for the children. The hike was a grueling all uphill track...

That Wednesday Life Maven
Mar 17, 20206 min read
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Namaste in the Bed Today: A Dear Wednesday Part II
The moral of the story…
1. If you are sick stay your butt at home. Please do not expose your poor unsuspecting coworkers to your germs.

That Wednesday Life Maven
Mar 10, 20202 min read
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12 Things I Wish I Knew Earlier in Life
What better way to celebrate this monumental and continuous feat, than to talk about the things I wish I knew earlier in life.

That Wednesday Life Maven
Mar 4, 20205 min read
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You're Gonna Hear Me Roar (Dear Wednesday)
The thing is, as much as I could dwell here, the part of me that was screaming to come out did. I learned to speak up, to advocate...

That Wednesday Life Maven
Feb 26, 20206 min read
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Confessions of an Attractive Unmarried Nerd Who Desires a Baby
I realized something, the only time I open my legs wide is for a gyne exam, gyne procedure, doing random gladiator squats or...

That Wednesday Life Maven
Feb 19, 20207 min read
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Process of Elimination: Dating After 30 - Dear Wednesday
What I’ve found in men over 30 is an overwhelming lethargy and lack of seriousness. They generally do not care whether they get married.

That Wednesday Life Maven
Feb 12, 20205 min read
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Dear Wednesday: The Halftime Show Heard 'Round The World
The Superbowl halftime show left me feeling alive and proud to be a woman, no matter my size, age, race, ethnicity, body image...

That Wednesday Life Maven
Feb 5, 20205 min read
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This Message Resonated with me... #LifeChanges
I woke up this morning and was immediately thrust into a morning I didn’t ask for and so this photo is for those of us who need a...

That Wednesday Life Maven
Feb 1, 20201 min read
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Trying to Make Sense of it All (Dear Wednesday)
I was told it was time for my yearly check and was unfortunately informed it had turned into cancer.

That Wednesday Life Maven
Jan 28, 20204 min read
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The Heart of Her Vision Came From Within (Dear Wednesday)
I want you all to understand that your faith, your achievements, your goals or a new year will not automatically delete every pain...

That Wednesday Life Maven
Jan 21, 20204 min read
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Dear Wednesday - What Are You Fighting For: The Birthplace of Motivation
Motivation (the will to fight for something important to you regardless of how difficult things get) comes from within.

That Wednesday Life Maven
Jan 14, 20203 min read
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Dear Wednesday - Pace Yourself: Three Ways to Maintain a Steady 2020 Pace
Therefore, I have listed out 3 tips to help you create and maintain your steady pace for 2020.

That Wednesday Life Maven
Jan 8, 20204 min read
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Set the Vision: 5 Ways to Jumpstart Your Year
If you haven’t taken some time to reflect, I encourage you to take some time now. And once you’ve done that, decide what needs to be done...

That Wednesday Life Maven
Jan 1, 20203 min read
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Dear Wednesday: Twas the Day of Christmas
Greetings to all of our faithful subscribers. If you're reading this today, it's probably Christmas. In whatever way you celebrate the joy o

That Wednesday Life Maven
Dec 25, 20192 min read
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Dear Wednesday: Say What You Need to Say
Conflict is simply people disagreeing or not seeing situations, topics, relationships from the same lens.

That Wednesday Life Maven
Dec 18, 20196 min read
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Dear Wednesday: Friendships are Not Subscription Plans
Cancel culture – a buzz phrase I love/hate – has taken over social media and relationships of all shapes and sizes.

That Wednesday Life Maven
Dec 11, 20197 min read
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Dear Wednesday: The Aftermath of “Emotional Unavailability” and the Trouble with Hookup Culture
The hookup culture, now more mainstream than ever, ensures that women spend more time managing when men will call/text/visit.

That Wednesday Life Maven
Dec 4, 20197 min read
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Dear Wednesday: Living Your FearLess Life + Creating FearLess Affirmations
I have shared story after story every week this month, but for this week, I want you to write your own story.

That Wednesday Life Maven
Nov 26, 20193 min read
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Motivate YoSelf: Creating a Motivational Cheat Sheet (Dear Wednesday)
If motivation is about acting in service to a goal and service means to act without expectation, then maybe motivation begins with...

That Wednesday Life Maven
Nov 20, 20195 min read
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But Did You Even Try Though? #DearWednesday
Sometimes we allow the thought of (fear, rejection, failure) to make choices for us. We sabotage potential life-giving events...

That Wednesday Life Maven
Nov 13, 20193 min read
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Dear Wednesday:...Or Maybe It Was All In Your Head!
Fear of Man is essentially an irrational fear of being rejected or disapproved of by another human that you may deem as superior to yourself

That Wednesday Life Maven
Nov 6, 20195 min read
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Dear Wednesday: MOMFIDENT Memoirs
Being a mother is beautiful, yet difficult.

That Wednesday Life Maven
Oct 29, 20194 min read
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When You've Got to Encourage Yourself - A Dear Wednesday Exclusive
This Dear Wednesday is dedicated to the inspiration that is inspiring us everyday. May it inspire you as you practice self-love & acceptance

That Wednesday Life Maven
Oct 23, 20194 min read
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